Rallying for Raleigh

Paul and I are ditching the house and kid (well, dog) this weekend as we head down to Raleigh, North Carolina to watch a friend perform in a locally-produced version of "Miss Saigon". I'm sure it's cheapened and watered down, like the helicopter at the end of the play is either a flying saucer or a cardboad cut-out of a jet plane.

I've never been to Raleigh, and I'd like to know what's there to see and do (in other words, "Where should I go shopping?")

If you've been to Raleigh before, number one: you're weird. Number two: let me know what to "see and do".